10 SIGN'S HE IS A DECENT GUY

But finding (and recognising) a good man may
not be as hard as you imagined, and below we
give you some ways how to.
Now ladies, we are not sure if these tips will help
you to get a good man, but we are more than
pleased to show you how to spot one.
1 He practices self-control. He is the type of guy
who knows his limit and exercises some amount
of restraint in trying times. Yeah you might look
great and all, but the first thing out of his mouth
the first time you meet him won't be, "When can
we go to your house and get dirty?"
2 Strong sense of loyalty. He will be able to make
promises and keep them. So after knowing him
for sometime, you won't be left wondering if he is
going to stick around after you get pregnant, or
after he vows to be with you through thick and
thin. His sense of loyalty will force him to go to
work instead of spending inordinate amounts of
time in front of the television.
3 Good conversationalist. A lack of
communication can cause any relationship to be
strained. So if he is a great conversationalist, you
would be better able to gauge his personality
more. He is someone who is not afraid to express
himself and let you know when he is not pleased
with something or just how much he feels about
you.
4 He is not pretentious. He is not a chameleon
who is one way with his friends and another way
with you. He is also not the type to discuss your
problems with his friends or disrespect you when
you are hanging out with them.
5 Good sense of humour. This is on the top of the
list for most girls when seeking out a significant
other, and when you consider how the world is
today, you could probably understand why. No
one wants to spend their life with an uptight guy
who never sees the funny side of life.
6 He is patient. He does not pressure you to do
something you are uncomfortable with. He
understands if you are not ready to take it to the
next level and is patient enough to stick around
until you are.
7 He is literate. This is not to suggest that all
who are literate will treat you right, some of them
can be very egotistical and scheming. But at
least he will probably be more adept to reasoning
with you. He is always willing to expand his
knowledge and as such open to new ideas and
insights.
8 He is trusting. He won't feel the need to put a
leash on you and question you about your every
move in order to feel secure. Instead, he will give
you the privacy you deserve and show respect for
your need for space.
9Does not bad mouth others. A decent guy will
not speak derogatorily of his ex-girlfriend, no
matter how much she hurt him. Everything about
the way he deals with you suggests that he has
respect. It is not a part of his character to gossip
and bad-mouth other people.
10 He is in touch with his feelings. No girl wants
a guy who is easily intimidated, but a guy who is
in touch with his emotions is one to consider.
That's the type who does not feel he has to be
macho, but can be vulnerable and shed some
tears if necessary. He is not afraid to be
compassionate towards you.